This is the last part of my honorable guest writer’s post… Happy Reading!
Those ones who have lived in broken households don’t usually reveal that aspect of their past,
especially when they get into romantic relationships.
But when it’s brought into light, it can change the way you look at things, including the way you love them:
Continuing from where we stopped, here are the rest of the facts about them that will help you understand and love them better……
ARGUMENTS WILL EITHER BE FILLED WITH EMOTION, OR BE COMPLETELY SHUT OFF…..
They don’t necessarily want to disagree with you, and
In the heat of an argument at this point, they will feel extremely anxious, and wonder if this might lead to you leaving them
Regardless of the situation you find yourself at, don’t leave things unsettled.
At the end of the day, they need to know that everything is okay.
ONCE THEY FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU, THEY ARE DONE HIDING FROM YOU
However long it might take for this to happen, when it does, you will know.
You are worth letting in.
You are understanding and non-judgmental, and they know you love them back.
MARRIAGE WILL BE AN AWKWARD CONVERSATION FOR THEM
To most, marriage is a fairy tale, and one that didn’t go so well in their family.
Don’t get mad, as it’s all they know.
Over time they will start to see a long future with you, and they will be more open to trying to understand what marriage with you could be like.
MARRYING YOU WILL BE THE HAPPIEST DAY OF THEIR LIFE…..
Once they get over the initial shock that they are actually getting married, they will be overjoyed. At this point, they have moved on from their past, and they are looking forward to starting a new life with you.
They are all about you, and this will genuinely be the happiest day of their lives.
THEY WILL MAKE AN AMAZING PARENT……
Because of all they have gone through as a child,
they will know exactly how they want to be with their children.
They will want to give their children the life they wish they would have had.
Becoming a parent can be terrifying for anyone, but they will take it in stride.
If you are lucky enough to make it this far with them, then you are their everything,
and they will look forward to making your little family the best it can be.
Like I said earlier….
I know it’s a lot to take in but in the end….. You will be glad you stayed to the end..
I’m Michelle Joshua…