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My Today’s Choice — August 14, 2017

My Today’s Choice

Today I choose to embrace my failures as lessons seeing every wrong attempt discarded as another step forward because now I know better that what lies around the corner could be my answered prayers, with the realization that everyday won’t be perfect but out of these imperfect days are lessons to help build a better future of better days. 
So today I choose to embrace my setbacks as lessons and bring the best out of ME! 
Much Love, 

Oluwafunmibi Fayemi

Daily Dose of Inspiration – Transform Your Life — July 6, 2017
Short Prayer! — September 13, 2016
Great Things — August 23, 2016

Great Things

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Is there even a need to explain the picture?! Its clearly written there. No need giving up if you know you’re on to a great thing… It sure takes time; Exercise patience and be Focused!

Much Love,
Oluwafunmibi Fayemi

A billet to my Inner Self : HAPPINESS — July 4, 2016
Just The Way You Are — June 14, 2016

Just The Way You Are

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You think you’re spoilt beyond repair?! Or you’ve given up hope?! But I’ve come to remind you today, that, you’re just the perfect piece for God’s work! *are you surprised* well, daddy loves you just the way you are and will do anything or give anything up to make you his perfect child. . . just open your heart and mind to him. Everything will be fine.
Have a great day!

Much Love,
Oluwafunmibi Fayemi

@ 22 — June 6, 2016

@ 22

Hi guys, I had my birthday last week and like I promised last year to see you at 22, here I am. I wrote 21 lessons @ 21 and now at 22, I’ve got 1(one) more lesson to add. I’ve learnt a lot within this one year and amongst these lessons, I’ve chosen one I believe I need to address.

Lesson 22 :- FORGETTING YOUR PAST

Trust me, it took a while before I got to know the difference between letting go and forgetting. You let go when you forgive but you can never be totally healed except you forget. Truth be told, I’m still a work in progress too but I believe I’ll get there *almost there*. Its in human nature to remember hurts done to us. Have you ever wonder why its easy to always remember the one bad thing someone did to you more often than the other good things the person did?! I think its just human nature. But in this lesson, I’ll talk on how to forget and attract the good things we want to experience or see in our lives. Its a principle I’ve started enjoying and you should too.

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Is quitting the only option left? — May 28, 2016

Is quitting the only option left?

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As long as you’re alive, there is still hope of doing much more than you can ever dream of. Just because things ain’t working out as planned or your way doesn’t mean it won’t work out well in the end. All you need to do is learn to be able to blend in with the situation; When the road gets rough & tough, remove your heels and lace your sneakers…
Everything Is Gonna Be Alright!

Much Love,
Funmibi Fayemi.

Feminist; The Social Misconception II — April 13, 2016

Feminist; The Social Misconception II

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In the last post I started a discussion on the misconception on who feminists are. I’ve read on some feminists and seen some who have great families with a wonderful lifestyles and I’m like someone needs to correct some societal notions on who these people are. I won’t deny that there are some extremists but I’ll like to talk on the ones who knows how to balance and rock it.

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  We have women in almost all fields if not all; Politics, Law, Aviation, Fashion, Health, Finance, Military, Sports, Entertainment, Academics, Defence, Engineering, Programming, Agriculture, just name it. I don’t get the reason for the misconception about who a feminist is, this is just a woman who knows better than to waste her gifts and talents tending to only home when a lot of people are out on the street whom she can help make life better for. She is wise enough to take care of home and also smart enough to live a purposeful life. I respect men, in fact, i am not a bra burning extreme sort of feminist, I don’t even agree with a lot of opinions and anger towards men, but I do have sense enough to know I wasn’t meant to be controlled by a man, other than the big guy upstairs that created everyone.

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     I know to pursuit my goals, actualize my dreams and be the best at whatever I do. I know to love and be loved, to care, to be submissive, to live like I mean it and succeed. I have God’s auction so I know all things and being his daughter I have the call of living a purpose driven life on me. I know I deserve whatever I want, every available opportunities & rights and it doesn’t just end with equality of gender but the equity of gender where there is fairness and impartiality at every strata of life.
I am an EMPOWERED WOMAN!

Thanks,
Oluwafunmibi Fayemi.

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Feminist; The Social Misconception — April 8, 2016

Feminist; The Social Misconception

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     Feminist, according to Oxford dictionary means; A person who supports the belief that women should have the same rights and opportunities as men. Even from this definition I still don’t get the reason for the social misconception. These are women with goals and purpose. Women who believe in the working together of both sexes to bring about a safer and better world. I believe we are in a generation where women are breaking ground rules, making things right and giving great support to men.
I totally don’t see the point in hating a woman just because she’s got dreams and opinions of her own. She’s got mind and brain to think, she can feel and see, she is talented and hardworking, she is bold and courageous, why then should she be reduced to a sex figure just because of her gender and social expectations. Some people even hate the idea of a woman being in a superior position or taking a leading role, last I checked the contribution of women to the world positively can’t be overemphasized. Is it the listening hear, the soothing words, the caring hands, the comfortable shoulders, the intelligence, the beauty, the ability to multitask, the reader, the leader, a daughter, a sister, a wife, a mother and with all these, women still contribute their best.
You’re the most beautiful of all God’s CREATION and you’re PRICELESS. . .
#ToBeContinued. . .

Note: I wrote this piece for a women website sometimes in Feb and I thought I should share it on my blog too. I’ll submit the remaining part later in the week.

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