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Life should be lived like you mean it without limits. . .

Hey Ladies 💝 — February 28, 2018

Hey Ladies 💝

One of the best blog post I’ve read on *Preparing A Woman For Marrige*. Nice one missbigwords 👍

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The book of Proverbs is a gold mine. It’s full of wise sayings and proverbs mostly by King Solomon. Someone suggested reading a chapter daily and when I attempted it, I noticed certain verses were repeated. A proverb about the quarrelsome wife particularly struck me, as the verses seemed to show up a lot in the latter part of the book. I found the comparisons to a quarrelsome wife very blunt and somewhat unkind, the writer didn’t mince words.

Seeing as marriage is something I would like to be involved in, I pay attention to the subject and learn wherever I can. One of the things I noticed was the fact that comparisons were made to a wife, not a husband. (Women, women. Why? ) I think it’s because the woman is a strong force in a home. Her attitude and character can greatly influence the atmosphere of a home.

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The Universe’s Most Powerful Law — February 27, 2018

The Universe’s Most Powerful Law

Don’t be afraid of facing that darkness. Shine your light! 💪 🔥
 Putting to practice what I’ve learnt from reading books on Mind control, Attitude, Personal transformation and Positive thinking made me further believe that truly the most powerful law of the universe is the *Law of Attraction*. Well, thanks to this quote, 

“ Don’t let your learning lead to knowledge, let your learning lead to action – Jim Rohn”.

I’ve learnt both from Head and Experiential knowlegde that, You attract everything that comes into your life, whether Good or Bad; Beautiful or Ugly and these you attract by virtue of the images you hold dear in your mind. What happens on the outside responds to what your thoughts are no matter what they are. If you can master and understand the dynamics and the power of your mind then you’ll know how to channel its energy into controlling situations. As humans, there is capacity to create, therefore, allowing life to happen to you because you can’t see the best even out of the worst of times shouldn’t be our excuse out of taking responsibility for our lives, all you’ll see is your Failings not Opportunities to do things better. Mistakes not Lessons. I’ve learnt from experience that if you dwell too long in a sticky situation, you’ll never see the way forward. Water will find its level (or so they say), you just have to change your attitude towards every not-so-good time you have and let just that little ray of light illuminate that dark phase. 

– Trust God.

– See the bigger picture.

– Hope by processing it in your mind.

– Activate your faith.

– Take conscious efforts by acting it out.

– Leave the Universe to align itself.

Remember, what starts the change is just that little conviction that its going to be alright. Just that little light and the darkness clouding over you will disappear.

Much Love,

Oluwafunmibi Fayemi

Be Your Investment — February 18, 2018

Be Your Investment

Be your own returns on Investment. Invest in your Future, Vision and Mind every single day.
My church has a daily devotional we run by and yesterday’s was titled *Invest in yourself*. In a way, it was a sent word that buttressed what I’ve been up to because lately I’ve been doing a lot of personal investment which mainly ain’t financial (it will one day give me that in returns tho from the knowledge and skills acquired) but the investment has been mainly adding knowledge and personal development and after seeing the devotional, I felt I’ll be doing wrong if I can’t share this gold.

Investment is the sacrifice you make today for the sake of tomorrow. Investment consciousness will make you deny yourself of certain pleasures at the present time so that your future can be better. 

Most people know about financial investments such as real estate investment, stock market and retirement plans. However, there is a greater form of investment which will determine what your future will be like. This is investing in self-development (Which is a journey I’m on). 

Everything changed after I did and I realize I have all it takes to be and have all I want! 🙌 💃

You must put enough value on yourself to the point that you are willing to spend any amount of money on your personal development, I realized that me not spending on my growth is not being frugal but it only means I don’t believe in myself enough (I don’t trust myself to multiply the seeds). There is need to convince the world that you believe enough in yourself by committing to your personal development. 
Begin to consciously schedule time for your personal improvement. Do things that will develop the gifts and talents that you are endowed with. Get materials that will enhance your knowledge and wisdom. It is time to prepare for your manifestation. Every great manifestation is a product of adequate preparation. Your world is waiting for your excellent display. Give them a SHOW! 👍

Tips to Invest in your vision

– Write the vision down. Habakkuk 2:1-3

– Take the vision to the word of God. Connect it to the source. Jeremiah 29:11

– Be Diligent. Work your faith. Proverbs 22:29

Much Love,

Oluwafunmibi Fayemi

Happy Valentine’s Day — February 14, 2018

Happy Valentine’s Day

Love is the reason for the season, show someone love. You know that one person that needs what you have surplus of, show some love by giving, help someone who can’t even repay your kindness, express your love nature in the most ideal and healthy way.

The true essence of Valentine ain’t just for people you’re in love with but for people who need or desire to be loved. Put a smile on someone’s face and don’t let it stop when today is over, make expression of love a lifestyle because love is your nature.

Finally, love yourself too because the truth is you can’t give what you don’t have. If life has been so tough on you lately, take a break today to pamper you.

Happy Valentine’s Day! ❤💕💞💝

Scriptural reference: 1John 4:16-21

Much Love,

Oluwafunmibi Fayemi

On Life’s Journey — February 10, 2018

On Life’s Journey

Strictly my quote 😉
Recently, I had to relocate from home to my place of National service and this involved a lot of packing. My brother (he did most of my packing tho, thanks again!) had to pack some things separately to dispose off because I’ll never need them, they are junks I’ve kept over the years (partially because I just hate to loose things, even the ones I don’t need). They would have been extra load, taking extra space, consuming extra energy.

This recent episode further buttressed one of the lessons growth has been teaching me that to achieve so much in life; You need to cut a lot of habits off. Lay off some friendships. Freeze some unhealthy lifestyle. Let go of some harsh words said to you. Break off a bad relationship. Surround yourself with only people who believe in you. Repel from every negativity clouding you. Deal only with positivities and the necessities. Simply because, with too much junks here and there you won’t be able to get a lot of things done in time and effectively. The so much baggage tends to weigh you down, limits how far you can go and how fast you’ll get there. I’m sure you don’t want to live life getting dragged down by all these, free some space in your life and enjoy the journey.

Much Love,
Oluwafunmibi Fayemi

Break The Box — February 6, 2018

Break The Box

Life should be lived without limits!

I don’t know how else to explain this short quote of mine but all I’m simply saying is you’re young and full of vigour to get a lot done. This is the time of your life when there is strength to even move mountains *sarcasm*.
There is time for everything and your youthful days are meant to be a landmark for creativity that constitute to your great future. It should be Adventurous and Fun; It should be Educative and Innovative; It should be Inspiring and Challenging.

     What I’m saying in short is that this is the time you can conveniently live your DREAMS. . . Don’t get your life boxed up because of your; Environment. Exposure. People’s opinions. Your Family. Your Past. Your Friends. Your Boss. The Economy. Past ResultsFear of the Unknown. . . Truth is, Success doesn’t come easily but the heart by which you do things counts a lot, the conviction of being able to do it encourages you and even when it doesn’t feel like achieving the goal is feasible, remember the motive behind starting it anyway. This quote from one of ofili’s book caught me;

“[If you are reading this]… You’re alive! That
means you have infinite potential. You can do anything. If you change the world, the world will change.” – Neil Gaiman

     Finally, friends, I just feel its high time we stopped restricting ourselves to boundaries set by others and start to think outside the box, in fact, we need to break out of the box and live free fulfilling purpose and working out our dreams. The only box you should find yourself should be the coffin and that’s after you’re dead, but, if you’re alive, you have more than enough potentials to make a lot of changes around here.
#JustBelieve #BeOptimistic #PutInTheEffort #NeverGiveUp

#BreakOutOfTheBox 💪

Much Love,

Oluwafunmibi Fayemi

​Not Too Early — February 2, 2018

​Not Too Early

This is not me being overly romantic when I say it’s not early to start preparing for marriage and kids irrespective of the gender. Just out of no where I suddenly realize how much I enjoy Parenting (all thanks to my kid sister who I’m 17years older than by the way). She made me see motherhood in a whole different amazing ways.
I practically skip shelves with relationship books when I go to bookshops cos it doesn’t really look like a big deal kinda to me *shrugs*, so, I usually end up buying books on Christianity, leadership, attitude and business most times, neglecting that one important part of life RELATIONSHIP.

But amongst the growth process being 20-something has done to me is realizing the need to balance up. The need to buy and read good books on relationships and marriage and family that is supposed to last a lifetime or click on that blog link or go for that conference. If you are like I used to be trust me there is so much you don’t know (Hollywood alone is never going to provide the best guide, sometimes you need to look closely at the people around and sometimes you sure have to pay a price to learn too). Even those who are years deep in marriages say the same.

I’m not a pathetic feminist that doesn’t yearn for marriage. I believe my kids deserve to have better parents than I did, even if mine were the best. Your marriage deserves to be happy and sexy and long lasting. You deserve a lifetime of strong bonds with the people who share blood and life and ups and downs with you.

But, you can’t just expect you’ll wake up one day to be that better parent you want to be to your kids. You’ve got to prepare for it now. We should crave to be a better generation when it comes to parenting especially for people who knows how it feels to be a product of a bad (sour) marriage, it can be frustrating, painful & scary. I’m sure you don’t want your kids near that spot. We are in the age where information is easy to get. Go online and download articles. Check blogs on relationship. Read books. Ask questions. Go for seminars. Learn from others, not by making your own mistakes too.

You don’t run from your past and avoid repeating mistakes by running from them. 

You resolve issues by facing them head on and gathering the wealth of information that was not available before. I got a book by Gary Chapman, “THINGS I WISH I’D KNOWN BEFORE WE GOT MARRIED” (you should lay your hands on that book too) for my 21st birthday gift and that launched me into reading many more books related. In fact, it was like my January was tagged for Relationship because of the books I read. 

I pray for my future family already. I pray for the little humans in my body waiting for growth. I sow seeds for them in advance. I love twins and I already have awesome names for them. I have specific names for my beautiful girl and handsome boy and I can’t explain the excitement from just the thought of it. I build walls around them with the words and promises of God.

It’s not too early for you too, nor too late.

Happy New Month!
Much Love,

Oluwafunmibi Fayemi