Relationship malarkey

Here is something that most relationship coaches aren’t going to tell you; fighting in a relationship is inevitable. The sooner you accept this, the sooner you can learn how to stop fighting.

Relationships are kind of like a Fight club; if you’re dating someone, you’re going to fight. There’s no getting around it. It is the only result of being in a relationship with another person – there’s going to be conflict, no matter how compatible you may be.

Trying to avoid fighting means trying to avoid conflict – which usually means that important issues get swept under the rug in the of ‘keeping the peace’ instead of resolving them. And of course, we all know how well denial works when it comes to conflict resolution.

Rather than trying to avoid conflict, people in most successful relationships learn how to fight so that they dont end up doing more damage…

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