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Wind-like love — February 21, 2015

Wind-like love

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I sit here thinking of how much you mean to me
Staring at the moon and wishing on a star
That you understand I’m here to stay.
My love is willing to pass the test of time
And make the long distance irrelevant
Because even if we can’t see it
Our love is like the wind, we can feel it. . .

I promise to you an everlasting love
Even if the sky is falling down
I’ll always be here waiting for you
With my arms open yearning for your warm embrace
With my lips full of life aching to keep secrets with yours
Though we can’t see it
Our love is like the wind, we can feel it. . .

I hope our love protects us
Because it hurts to know the separation can’t be help
When I said I love you, it wasn’t for saying sake
Because even when we are miles apart
The feelings is still the same and I realize that
Even if we can’t see it
Our love is like the wind, we can feel it. . .

Happy Valentine — February 14, 2015

Happy Valentine

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Happy Valentine to all my readers, co-bloggers, family, friends, boo, whatsapp contacts, bbm contacts, and every other persons. Thanks so much and I wish everyone a great time today with an everlasting love to last a lifetime. . .
#ILoveYouAll!!

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       Special shout out to my friend and course mate on his birthday with his twin sister.

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Happy Birthday Vicky!! Long life and prosperity!
I pray God bless your new age!!
#Cheers! To happiness!!

How to stop arguing with your girlfriend.. — February 13, 2015

How to stop arguing with your girlfriend..

Relationship malarkey

Here is something that most relationship coaches aren’t going to tell you; fighting in a relationship is inevitable. The sooner you accept this, the sooner you can learn how to stop fighting.

Relationships are kind of like a Fight club; if you’re dating someone, you’re going to fight. There’s no getting around it. It is the only result of being in a relationship with another person – there’s going to be conflict, no matter how compatible you may be.

Trying to avoid fighting means trying to avoid conflict – which usually means that important issues get swept under the rug in the of ‘keeping the peace’ instead of resolving them. And of course, we all know how well denial works when it comes to conflict resolution.

Rather than trying to avoid conflict, people in most successful relationships learn how to fight so that they dont end up doing more damage…

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Trust —

Trust

Relationship malarkey

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Trust is essential for a successful relationship. If your partner feels as if you don’t trust them, they may start to feel resentful against you. They will end up enjoying your company less and less.

1. Don’t question them about where they have been all day and what they have been up too. If they want to tell you they will, don’t keep pestering them. Trust them that they have just been doing their normal day.

2. Don’t dis-believe them when they do tell you what they have been doing and who they have been with. Trust them and just carry on the conversation.

3. If your partner has been around someone of a different sex that had made you feel uncomfortable on many occasions, trust them. Believe them when they say they are just talking, as most the time they are probably taking about you anyway!

3. Don’t jump…

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Valentine —

Valentine

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    Hello guys, its another valentine season again and my heart has been heavy on sharing some things with ourselves.
     LOVE. . . that’s a huge word you know? Its the wheel behind the journey of life. At some point you’ll be in love and how you felt or you’ve been made to feel goes a long way to leave footprints of the meaning of love to you. Recently, I’ve seen a lot of break ups & couples cheating on each other and I’m like where is the love they started the relationship with??! Who or what went wrong?! I rarely hear happy love stories these days which makes me think, doesn’t true love exist anymore? Or maybe it’s just the environment that I’m in or the people around me. I’m not saying there are no happy relationships either but the ratio to the latter is quite small. Many kids are hurt from separated homes and are so scared to love, many its the film they’ve seen or books they’ve read or just other people around them that they care for but has seen gotten hurt by loving someone. For some reasons, some people has been made to believe  the fault is in them and that made them believe that they may not be worthy to be with,  because when the person you get to be with for a long time can’t decide to commit, how much more with someone you’re just getting to know or about to meet?
For one person, the moment you feel the love, you’re willing to give it all. It seems though that at the moment you give in and show your vulnerability, you get manipulated. Then there’s unrequited love, inconsistencies, hot and cold, complacency or ego.

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      Well, if you’ve been down that road you don’t have to let go, there will be someone someday who will treasure a special someone like you for who you are. Personally, I’ve learnt that I could be enough for someone. That there will be someone who will make you realize you’re all they ever need.
That you don’t have to earn their love and you don’t have to beg for it because you already know that they love all of you from the beginning. If you’ve given it all and it didn’t work out, it’s not about you, it’s about them and their issues. The fact that you are able to give it all without expecting anything in return but just a hope of appreciation, makes you special, it’s just the quality of the people you are loving and you chose to love. You don’t have to give up on love, there will be someone someday who will treasure a special someone like you because they’ll know you’re hard to find, that someone will love you with all their heart and soul, they will surrender, they will never give up on you, they will give you everything there is and more, so much that it scares you.

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     True love maybe do exist. We’ll never know until it hits us and the moment that happens, it could be the best feeling in the world. You have to believe in love and choose to love because I’m sure you still have a lot of love to give cos its in you and love is a follow come nature embedded in you by God.

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      Tomorrow, February 14, while everyone is out celebrating with their love ones, you can celebrate it too with the one you have just started loving. . . Yourself!
If you don’t learn to love yourself first you can’t learn to love others
likewise you can’t learn to love yourself by first loving others – My quote.” Its the love you’ve learnt to maximize in you that you’ll spread abroad to every other person around you. So babe or dude, you’ve got to give yourself a nice treat tomorrow, take some time out, meet your friends, watch movies that will make you laugh so much you’ll almost crack your ribs not emotional movies, do something different from the regulars, go to the spa and relax your tensed muscles, eat chocolates and cake, eat pizza with the girls, play soccer with the boys, get yourself a gift, make someone else happy. . . just Love yourself so well you won’t notice you spent it alone at the end of the day.
      Another thing to do tomorrow is showing compassion to the less privilege. Reach out to someone who won’t be able to give back, reach out to the poor,the sick. . . They need that love most and trust me there’s a satisfaction and joy you feel in your heart when you help the needy and you really don’t know how much seed you’ve sown into that person’s life but what goes around definitely comes back around. Make it a lifestyle to help the needy the joy of doing that is enough and the blessing for spreading the love is jaw breaking.
      According to the greatest law it says “love your neighbour as yourself ” so once again let us allow the love of God in us rule and conquer everything. I’ll love to rest my pen now on the wish that everyone will have a splendid VALENTINE tomorrow loving themselves more than ever and sharing the LOVE in them abroad to everyone.
#ILoveYouAll!
#HappyValentine!!

The Girl In The Mirror — February 11, 2015

The Girl In The Mirror

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I slept yesternight thinking hard about who I am
And that same question has been my Achilles’s heel for too long.
It has been my weakness that whenever I think of who I am
I always feel tremor from my stomach to my bone marrow.
When I woke up this morning I was different from the girl of last night.
Something has changed about me
Did I have a dream again? I can’t remember
But I felt the change so I picked up my mirror.

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And there in it I saw the answer to all my fears.
The mirror made me see the reflection of who I am.
I am a girl who has been endowed with strength & wisdom.
The girl in the mirror sees every failure as a lesson.

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My reflection showed me how wonderful & beautiful I am
And told me I am the first prophet of my life.
No matter what anybody feels and think about me
I determine how far I want to go in life.
The girl in the mirror has learnt to know how much she’s WORTH
So that she’ll stop giving people DISCOUNTS.
And she knows she is not a one in a million kind of girl
She is a once in a lifetime kind of woman who doesn’t have to compete with a man for his position.
I have my position and I’m comfortable with being the CHANGE with it.
The reflection of the girl in the mirror is who I am. . .

Amazing Twin Dream — February 6, 2015

Amazing Twin Dream

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     This evening I feel I should share with my awesome readers a personal wish and some interesting gists about some of the celebrities we love but don’t know have a twin. Have fun relaxing yourself with this awesome piece.

     My love for twins can’t be estimated, I almost got obsessed with mere thoughts of having a set of twin children. I love how cute they are when small and the pleasure they give to the eyes when old. I even sometimes pray I have a set too.

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    Sometimes you have them as fraternal or identical twins. They can be girl-girl, boy-boy or boy-girl. I personally prefer the boy-boy or boy-girl infact I’ve lost count on how many times I’ve scribbled down names I’ll give my twins both feminine & masculine names *giggles*.
     I took some time off to check on some celebrities that are twins that some of us don’t even know of and I think I should share these few.

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     French actress and Bond girl Eva Green was born
two minutes earlier than her fraternal twin sister,
Joy. Eva has said in interviews that she and her
twin “are very contrasting characters,” which
explains things pretty well — Joy studied business
and is married to an Italian count. She lives in
Normandy, France, where she rears horses.

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      Fashion designer Charlotte Ronson and DJ
Samantha aren’t just sisters — they’re fraternal
twins. Samantha often provides the playlists for
Charlotte’s runway shows and spins at her
afterparties. They also share another artistic sibling
in musician Mark Ronson.

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    You’ll definitely have to do a double-take to tell
Shawn Ashmore and his brother Aaron apart! The
boys are both actors and have worked both
together and separately — they each starred on
Smallville, and Shawn has gained fame for his role
as Iceman in the X-Men film series.

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     And I was surprised to know that Vin Diesel has a double too! The chiseled
Fast & Furious 6 star has a fraternal twin brother
named Paul, who reportedly works as a film editor.

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     Nicholas Brendon may be best known for his role
as Xander Harris in Buffy, the Vampire Slayer, but
few people are aware that his identical twin
brother, Kelly Donovan, acted as a stand-in for
many of his scenes on the show.

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     Jon Heder, the actor best known as Napoleon
Dynamite, has an identical twin brother named
Dan. In an interview on the Late Show With David
Letterman in 2009, Jon said that as children he
and his twin “caused a lot trouble by pretending to
be the other.” They’re now partners in a
production company.

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     Scarlett Johansson ‘s twin brother, Hunter, was
born three minutes after her and often
accompanies her to industry events. Both Johansson twins have an
interest in politics — Scarlett is a noted supporter
of Barack Obama, and Hunter served as a
campaign adviser for the president in 2008.

     The most fascinating things about the twin children to me is knowing that they both shared the same womb at a time,some even share the umbilical cord,born at same time though might be minutes apart. They grow up most of the time sharing a lot of things in common though there are many exceptions where they grow to have passion for different separate things but they still remain Omo meji. My heart reaches out to them always whenever I see one and my honest shout out goes out to all twins out there and their parents. . .
     Have a great weekend ! !
#God Bless You!

A New Day — February 2, 2015

A New Day

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Its another morning and a new day is here
Here it comes with fresh hope and strength
And the mistakes of yesterday could be forgone
Because with the new day comes a new slate
And you have the opportunity to start all over again. . .

I can smell the new day from the fresh dew
And I feel refreshing to start the new week better
Even better than the past ones with no worries of the past
I resolute to living each day one at a time
Maximizing every minute of it to fulfilment. . .

With the new day comes new responsibilities
And I intend to leave no leaf unturned
But promise to take breaks for fun too
And spread the love for every new day to others
At the end of the new day I’ll feel loved and fulfilled. . .

God bless the New Day. . .